Do you understand what went wrong in your relationship?
And, have you made as much peace as possible with your ex and the divorce? Create a marriage map.
Can you identify what a new, good, happy relationship looks like to you? If not, beware. Human beings are usually creatures of habit.
We do what is comfortable instead of what is right. So, if you were married to a narcissist, without the knowledge of what a narcissist acts like in the beginning, you may find yourself on the same dysfunctional merry-go-round again. Start doing things that make YOU happy.
What makes you happy? Make a list of five to 10 things that bring you joy, and start to do them again.